O is for opportunity. In my life, I’ve discovered that misfortune can sometimes lead to opportunity. A sudden reversal can lead to seeing things in a new way. If I’m willing to reflect, I can reframe the situation.
When I was deciding whether to close my practice, new competitors were a worry until I realized they were an opportunity. I stepped away from hospital work gracefully. My patients continued to get excellent care, and I got my decades-long wish to have weekends off.
Be Ready
I try to be ready to seize an opportunity when it comes along. Last night I began an online class for learning some tools for memoir revision. I want to revise my manuscript to the point where I’m ready to query, but I need help developing a plan.
After my first class, I sat down with my to-do list and my calendar to figure out how I’m going to fit this new learning in. My calendar is already crowded with other obligations and commitments.
The Other O-word
Suddenly, O was for overwhelm. Overwhelm hits me when I’m tired, at the end of the day. This morning, the burden feels much lighter. I have an optional deadline on Friday and a hard deadline on Monday. Now, the impossible feels doable. My skill level feels better matched to the challenge I am facing.
Change Perspective
My focus has switched back from overwhelm to opportunity. I’m grateful for the timing of this class. I’m the target audience. When I’m in overwhelm, it’s always tempting to look at what still needs to be done.
Sleep
When I look back at what I’ve accomplished, though, I feel better. Recently, I published a poetry chapbook. I’ve been showing up for my blog and newsletter every week, almost daily for the month of April. Sometimes the micro-transformation to feeling brave comes from a good night’s sleep.
